SPA Girls Podcast – EP130 – Critical Care: Leverage Feedback For Success
Apr11

SPA Girls Podcast – EP130 – Critical Care: Leverage Feedback For Success

The sting of even well-meant criticism can leave us reeling and it’s very hard not to take it personally. This week we discuss how to cope with criticism – from all sides: friends, other writers, readers and editors – and then figure out what to discard, and how to use the Good Stuff to improve our writing success.

“Remember: when people tell you something’s wrong or doesn’t work for them, they are almost always right. When they tell you exactly what they think is wrong and how to fix it, they are almost always wrong.” ~ Neil Gaiman

Just like learning to write well, learning to take criticism well is a journey. Join us for some brutally honest insights into how the SPA Girls cope!

PS. #shamelessplug We’ve written a book that may help you too

Some cool resources:

Brene Brown on Why Your Critics Aren’t The Ones Who Count (video)

Article: How To Deal With Harsh Criticism Of Your Writing by Charlie Jane Anders

There’s nothing more vulnerable than the act of making up stories. Whether it’s an introspective personal story or a seat-of-your-exploding-pants thriller, you’re taking something out of your unfiltered imagination and putting it into the form of a product. That people then criticize. How do you handle that?

Article: 34 Inspiring Quotes on Criticism (and How to Handle It) by The Positivity Blog

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Episodes 100 – 200 List
Mar27

Episodes 100 – 200 List

200             What we’ve learned so far…                                                         

199             Interview with Adam Croft – Mindset and Marketing                                       

198             Find Your Sparkle – with Julie Schooler                                                              

197             Hack Your Muse – with Kelly McClymer                                                            

196             Public Speaking For Authors – with Alena Van Arendonk                                  

195             The Magic Pill – with Laura Van Arendonk-Baugh                                              

194             A Day In The Life Of A Writer                                                                             

193             Keep It Simple                                                                                                     

192             Interview with Skye Warren: Money Mindset and Facebook Ads

                   For Authors (Part Two)                                                                                       

191             Interview with Skye Warren: Time Management & Advertising

                   For Authors (Part One)                                                                                       

190             Dragon Wrangling with Scott Baker: secrets for                                                

                   Successful dictation                                                                                            

189             Interview with Patricia McLinn: Writing by the seat of                                      

                   Your pants                                                                                                           

188             Interview with Morgana Best: Writing & Marketing                                         

                   Cozy Mysteries

187             Interview with Geoff Symon: Wounds & Crime Scenes                                     

186             Interview with Natasha Bajema, WMD for Authors                                           

185             The Writer’s Detective with Adam Richardson                                                  

184             Keeping The Faith                                                                                               

183             Facebook Advertising with Maria Luis ~ Part Two                                             

182             Facebook Advertising with Maria Luis ~ Part One                                             

181             Learn dictation with Kilby Blades                                                                       

180             Interview with Brian Meeks, Mastering Book Descriptions                               

179             Interview with Tara Cremin, Kobo Writing Life                                                  

178             Interview with Larissa Reynolds – Newsletters Part Two                                                       

177             Interview with Larissa Reynolds – Newsletters Part One                                                       

176             Self Publishing Jargon                                                                                                                 

175             Wrangling Facebook: How To Make It Work For You                                        

174             How To Write A Regency Romance                                                                    

173             How Do You Identify Your Writing Weaknesses?                                               

172             Interview With Dan Wood, D2D                                                                         

171             Interview With Serenity Woods                                                                         

170             Get Your Head In The Game                                                                                           

169             5 Goals You Need To Make In 2019                                                                    

168             Jumpstart Your 2019 Marketing with 31 Quick To Dos for Jan.                         

167             Scheduling For Writing Success                                                                          

166             Our 2018 Roundup                                                                                              

165             He Said, She Said: Creating Dazzling Dialogue                                                   

164             Interview with Steffanie Holmes: Reverse Harem                                             

163             Interview with YA author Kelly St Clare                                                             

162             Launch Plans That Work                                                                                     

161             Cracking Christmas Promo                                                                                 

160             Amazon Excl v Wide – things to consider and how to market                           

159             Interview With Kathryn LeVeque                                                                       

158             Some Like It Hot – Or Not. Heat Levels In Romance                                          

157             Interview With Louisa George                                                                            

156             The Kindness Factor: Helping You Achieve More and Stress Less                     

155             Editing                                                                                                                 

154             The Power Of Four                                                                                              

153             Characters: From Cookie Cutter to Kapow                                                         

152             Interview with Tina Dietz: Audiobooks                                                               

151             Interview with Grace Burrowes                                                                          

150             Should You Prune Your Mailing List?                                                                 

149             RWNZ18 Interview with Damon Suede & Geoff Symon                                     

148           Interview with indie superstar, Bella Andre                                                                  

147             Top Ten Traits for Success                                                                                  

146             Write Better Faster with Becca Syme                                                                 

145             Newsletter Ninja Tammi LaBrecque                                                                  

144             Looking After Your Creative Health                                                                    

143             Interview with Carlyn Robertson from Bookbub                                                

142             Personal Branding For Authors with Lauren Clemett                                        

141             Ten Free Online Tools For Authors                                                                     

140             Tempting Taglines & Heartstopping Hooks                                                        

139             Findaway Voices with Kelly Lytle                                                                        

138             Get Your Writing Mojo Back                                                                               

137             Interview with Toni Kenyon: facebook live & serials                                         

136             Dealing with misinformation and change in Sp-ing                                           

135             Interview with Maria Luis                                                                                   

134             Interview with Kevin Tumlinson, Draft2Digital                                                  

133             Interview with Sara Rosett                                                                                 

132             Organization For Authors – how to keep track of your                                      

                   research and book details without losing your mind

131             Interview with Ricardo Fayet of Reedsy                                                             

130             Critical Care: Leveraging feedback for success                                                   

129             Brand You                                                                                                            

128             SAS Special: Interview with Johnny B. Truant & Sean Platt                               

127             Industry Insiders with Damon J. Courtney of Bookfunnel                                  

                   & Christine Monroe of Kobo

126             SAS Debrief with Jami Albright                                                                           

125             SAS Special: Interview with Michelle Spiva                                                        

124             SAS Special : Interview With Michael Anderle                                                   

123             Sports Psychology for Authors – Interview With Nate Vella                                                                                  

122             Using Sub Plots To Amp Up Your Writing                                                           

121             Interview with Scott King: Outlining Your Novel                                                

120             Pen-names Pros, Cons and Possibilities                                                             

119             Reader Engagement with Nalini Singh                                                               

118             Writing the Small Town Setting                                                                          

117             Handling Negativity and Naysayers                                                                    

116             Tough Mindset Questions For 2018                                                                   

115             Interview With Nicola Davidson: Sex and Sensibility                                         

114            Tropealicious

113            2017 Christmas Episode

112            Interview With Honoree Corder & Ben Hale: Write Like A Boss

111           Ten Health Hacks For Writers

110           Interview with Kathryn Burnett: Your Writing Audit For Future Success

109           Interview with Melissa Storm: What Readers Want

108           Interview With Zoe Dawson: Writing Across Genres

107           Interview With Dave Chesson, The Keyword King

106           Pros and Cons of Kindle Unlimited

105           Why YOU should do Nanowrimo

104           Ten Truths For New Self Publishers

103           Find 30 Minutes A Day EXTRA!

102           Your Christmas Presence: Maximizing the Holiday Season for Authors

101           The Writing Life: Interview with Katie Cross

100           100 Episodes!  Retrospective with funny moments; changing AO title

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SPA Girls Podcast – Ep 227 – Elana Johnson Part One – Productivity
Feb19

SPA Girls Podcast – Ep 227 – Elana Johnson Part One – Productivity

USA Today bestselling author Elana Johnson writes adult contemporary beach romance and Christian Cowboy Romance. She’s the author of over 130 books across two names, and in January 2020 just hit a 6 figure month for the first time.

We talk to Elana about how she balances her workload because we know she’s doing well on the marketing front which is such a big topic these days and definitely needs to be factored in to your day.

Elana works over 2 projects at a time. Once her current WIP and the second is a ‘fun’ project. When the main one is done then the second becomes her current WIP. This way she is always ahead of the game and there’s no wondering what to do next.

But the most interesting fact about her amazing productivity is that Elana will write around 8k a day (more if she can) and some of this is around her commitments to her high school daughter. Every wait in the car after school and during practices is utilized. With the help of a car steering wheel desk (yes, it’s a thing!) she manages to work instead of wasting time.

When most of us would be checking messages or Facebook Elana has that time factored into her schedule!

With these questions and more, be inspired the way we are:

– Did you start off being this fast?

– Can you tell us how you do it? What are your best tips for the younger player?

– What’s the most important aspect of being productive? What’s the most challenging?

– Can anyone do it?

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